Wednesday, October 8, 2008

The Blog Is Back!

For months now, I've been meaning to catch up here, to post about travels (Duluth! Northfield! Chicago! Grand Forks! New York City!), dinners with friends, parties, political musings, adventures with Chloe, etc, etc, etc. Okay, let's be honest--that's probably never going to happen. Sure, I tell myself that "maybe someday when I don't have anything else to do," I'll go back and blog about some of the highlights of the past few months. (Though with Facebook, time-wrenching mistress that she is, there's always something to do....) In the meantime, it's time to move forward. My friend Amy (mom of Ripley) suggested I post once a week leading up to my 40th birthday and talk about what I've done during those last few days. So that is my new goal: On Wednesdays when Tomkin is at poker, and after I've talked with my mom, I will try to tear myself away from "Dancing with the Stars" and whatever project I'm editing to blog about what I've been up to during the week. And once I get to 40? Well, we'll cross that bridge when we get there...in 364 days.So what has this last week entailed? It's been busy, productive, and incredibly fun. Last Wednesday, October 1, Tomkin and I took Chloe to the Minnehaha dog park. That place is absolutely incredible. And it will only get more beautiful now that the leaves are changing. Chloe ran around, climbed up a tree (one that had fallen over), waded in the river, and rolled around on God-only-knows-what. In other words, she had a fabulous time!
Wednesday evening I went to the Minnesota Magazine & Publications Association's annual "magazine celebration," which was held at Open Book in Minneapolis. I've been trying to go to more editorial-related events around town, and it's nice because I'm seeing some of the same people at various places and getting to talk with them. At this particular event, I was also doing some networking, getting my business cards out to people who might be looking for a freelance editor. (If you, by some chance, happen to be looking for a freelance editor, check out my services here.)
On Thursday, Tomkin and I checked out the free Metro happy hour at Restaurant Max in Minneapolis. We've been going to some Metro-sponsored parties lately (including the Sugar party at the aloft hotel and the Metro 100 party at the Chambers hotel) and, again, we're seeing some of the same people at the various events and getting to talk to them, which is fun. It's also a great way to check out new places around town. We had a great time at Restaurant Max--the place itself was really cool, the vibe was relaxed, and the food and drinks were delicious (and free!). Tomkin with Dena from Metro magazine and Dawn and Eden from Fabulous Catering.

Friday night we met up with our friend Peter (with whom we reconnected at this summer's Carleton reunion) and his girlfriend, Mandy, for dinner at Christo's in St. Paul. We spent about three hours eating, drinking, and talking. One of my favorite things in life is having dinner with friends, especially when the conversation is as satisfying and delicious as the food.Saturday was a very busy day. In the afternoon, we took Chloe to Doggie Palooza in St. Louis Park. The main thing I was interested in was getting Chloe to try out lure coursing. It's something that Rhodesian ridgebacks often do competitively, but Chloe (who turned eight in August) had never done it before. We waited for about an hour-and-a-half, and it was fun to watch the other dogs have a go while we were in line. One speedy greyhound lost control, tumbled over, and broke straight through the plastic fence! By the time it was Chloe's turn, she had built up a little fan club. Tomkin got her excited about "chasing the squirrel," and then a whole bunch of us cheered her on while she raced around the field! The first time around, she was totally focused and gave it her all. The second time around, she got about a quarter of the way through...and then turned around and trotted back to us. Even so, we were very proud of her! I couldn't help but wonder how Scout would have fared, as well. (It was almost five months to the day since he died.) We walked Chloe around the vendors' booths and let her run loose in the play area for a while. She seemed to have a great time, and we were really proud of her. Not bad for an old girl!Originally, I had thought about throwing a big party for my 39th birthday, but eventually I decided to scale back and just get together with a few friends. So that's what we did Saturday night.Tomkin picked up a cake for me from Wuolett's, and we had pizza delivered from Pizza Luce. We had about ten people over for dinner, cake, and champagne. It was a low-key but really fun evening.
We took it easy on Sunday. Tomkin had a meeting with a couple, and I did a little work. We went to REI and got some new winter clothes. Tomkin got me totally outfitted last year, but I still had a few cold spots (nose, butt & thighs, and hands), so he got me a long down coat, a face mask, and down mittens. Now I should have no excuse not to go for walks, even in the dead of winter! We also went to Goodwill to check out their furniture. I wanted to find a couch for my basement office--and I did! For only $30, no less. We also found a chair and lamp for Tomkin's dressing room (aka the spare bedroom). Tomkin drove me home and went back for the couch, which he brought home in his convertible. Chloe and I have already napped on it, and we give it our seal of approval!
On Monday, I finished editing the novel I've been working on for the last few weeks. Phew! I had finished up another project just a few days before. Work has been really steady lately--a lot of people are finding me through my Web site, thanks to the online talents of my amazing husband. Monday evening, we took a bunch of ice cream and headed over to Becca & Omar's. I still can't believe they have four sons. Wow! Those boys have a lot of energy. They're all really sweet and cute, though. And I can't believe how good baby Leo is! We ate and talked--it was nice to hang out and catch up.Then yesterday, October 7, was my 39th birthday. It was an absolutely incredible day. First of all, Tomkin hung gift bags in all the rooms on the main floor. He had gone to eight different stores on Grand Avenue (Avalon, Bibelot, Common Good Books, Flirt, Garden of Eden, Paper Patisserie, Patina, and Picky Girl) and bought me a gift and a gift certificate from each one. All the stores are within walking distance of our house, so now when we're out for a walk, I can go in and pick something out! I thought that was a really cool gift. I also opened presents that my mom had sent. I got e-cards, Facebook greetings, phone calls, cards, and other good wishes (including an Indian singing telegram!) throughout the day, which was really fun.Tomkin and I got lunch at the new Punch Pizza on Grand. We both got goat cheese and prosciutto--my favorite! We headed into Minneapolis and got coffee at Dunn Bros, then went to the Mill City Museum. We had originally planned to spend the day at the zoo, but we switched up our plans since it was raining. And we had a fabulous time at the museum! It was really fun--I highly recommend it. We learned a lot about milling, flour, and Minneapolis. (I know it doesn't really sound that fun, but trust me, it is.) We headed home to rest for a bit (and check in on Facebook), then we went out for dinner at Barbette in Minneapolis. Neither of us had been there before, but we'd heard great things about it. And we both loved it! It was warm and cozy, with a bit of a Moulin Rouge vibe. We split three appetizers (mussels, cheese fondue, and pomme frites), and I had a glass of champagne. For dessert, I had chocolate pots de creme. Fabulous! Our last stop for the day was Prohibition, the new bar on the 27th floor of the Foshay Tower. I ordered an Epiphany (pear vodka, elderflower liqueur, and Veuve champagne--Carrie and Lisa, you would have loved it!), and we sat in shiny white leather chairs and looked out at the lights of the city. It's funny how my birthday ended up being such a Twin Cities-centric day, but that's certainly appropriate! It was a really amazing birthday--quite a way to kick off my countdown to 40!

Monday, September 15, 2008

Jesus Is My Friend

Let's Hear It for "North Dakota Nice"!

According to a new British psychology study that measured all 50 United States in extraversion, agreeableness, openness, neuroticism, and conscientiousness, North Dakota has the nicest people in the nation, while New Yorkers are the most neurotic and unfriendly. You can see the entire chart here. A few key findings:

EXTRAVERSION

Personality traits: Sociable, energetic and enthusiastic

High-scoring states: North Dakota, Wisconsin, District of Columbia, Nebraska, Minnesota, Georgia, South Dakota, Utah, Illinois, Florida

Low-scoring states: Vermont, Washington, Alaska, New Hampshire, Maryland, Idaho, Virginia, Oregon, Montana, Massachusetts

AGREEABLENESS

Personality traits: Warm, compassionate, co-operative and friendly.

Highest-scoring states: North Dakota, Minnesota, Mississippi, Utah, Wisconsin, Tennessee, North Carolina, Georgia, Oklahoma, Nebraska.

Lowest-scoring states: New York, Nevada, Wyoming, District of Columbia, Alaska, Maine, Rhode Island, Virginia, Connecticut, Montana.

CONSCIENTIOUSNESS

Personality traits: Dutiful, responsible, self-disciplined.

Highest-scoring states: New Mexico, North Carolina, Georgia, Utah, Kansas, Oklahoma, Nebraska, Florida, Arizona, Missouri.

Lowest-scoring states: Wyoming, Rhode Island, Hawaii, Maine, Alaska, Connecticut, New Jersey, New Hampshire, Massachusetts, New York.

NEUROTICISM

Personality traits: Anxious, stressful and impulsive.

Highest-scoring states: West Virginia, Rhode Island, New York, Mississippi, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Kentucky, Louisiana, Ohio, Arkansas.

Lowest-scoring states: Alaska, Oregon, South Dakota, Colorado, Utah, Washington, Arizona, Nebraska, North Dakota, Nevada.

OPENNESS

Personality traits: Curious, intellectual, creative.

Highest-scoring states: District of Columbia, New York, Oregon, Massachusetts, Washington, California, Vermont, Colorado, Nevada, Maryland.

Lowest-scoring states: Wisconsin, Alabama, Alaska, Wyoming, North Dakota, Hawaii, Kentucky, Nebraska, Iowa, Delaware.

Sunday, September 14, 2008

Their Four Sons

Congratulations to Becca & Omar on the birth of their fourth son, Leo! He stuck it out until his due date (and then one day beyond) and was born on September 9th weighing a little over nine pounds. Tomkin and I visited a glowing Becca and her newest baby on Wednesday. We couldn't believe she had just given birth the day before! Leo is absolutely adorable and seemed very contented the whole time we were there. Congrats to the Ansari family!

Thursday, August 21, 2008

Barack Roll

Friday, August 1, 2008

I'm Leaving...on a Megabus...

Man, has this been a busy summer! And it's only going to get busier, at least for a while. Tomkin and I had a lovely vacation in Northfield last Sunday through Tuesday. Fun and relaxing--just what we needed. I finally finished putting together all the wedding photo albums (phew!), and this week we got the wedding DVD! I'm in the midst of starting a second career as a premarital educator, while still doing freelance editing. And I'm leaving in less than an hour to catch the Megabus to Chicago, where I'll be spending a few days visiting with friends. I haven't been back since last November! I still won't get to see everybody, but I will get to visit with some people I haven't seen since I moved to Minnesota last October. I'll get back late Tuesday night, and then next Saturday Tomkin and I are driving up to Grand Forks/East Grand Forks for my 20-year high school reunion! My mom and aunt Candy will also be in town, so we'll have lots of family activities, as well. Thanks to all of you blog readers who continue to check in, even though I haven't been posting much lately. I really do intend to get back into the swing of things...eventually. In the meantime, I hope you're enjoying this fabulous summer!

Also, happy 50th birthday today to my favorite singer, Michael Penn!

Thursday, July 10, 2008

New Blogs on the Block

The blog bug is catching! (Which is awesome--I think everyone should have a blog!) Here are three new ones to check out:

Becca's Blog about the Surly Crew
Amy's Blog about Ripley
Golla's Blog about Golla Stuff

Enjoy!

Mid-July Already, Is It?

So I really do still intend to catch up on many of the goings-on from the past couple months. There's a lot to blog about--trips, dinners with friends, parties, dog-park outings, and even a recent go at kite-flying. In June I was swamped with work, and I spent many (many!) hours whittling down wedding photos to our "favorite" 700. (Which have now been ordered from Kodak...so my next task will be to put them in albums and frames.) Tomkin's been busy with weddings, and we're still in that newlywed phase where we love spending as much time as possible together. We take Chloe for a walk every day, and we have a ridiculous amount of fun, even if we're just sitting on the couch, talking. I will confess that I recently joined Facebook, and that's been a minor addiction, so if I'm on the computer for non-work purposes, it's often to send Pieces of Flair or to play Scramble or Scrabulous. This weekend I'm heading up north to attend the Fertile Fair with Brenda. She's been wanting me to go for years, and this year (since I now live within relatively easy driving distance) I'm finally going to make it! Tomkin has a busy weekend planned himself--for one thing, our house is going to be featured in the Lex-Ham Garden Walk (from 10:00am to 1:00pm on Saturday, if you want to stop by). Next week we've got birthday celebrations, Paws on Grand, and a BBQ at our house. Hmmm...I'm not really sure when I'm going to catch up on all this blogging. Well, winter should be here in a couple weeks--maybe I'll do it then!

Saturday, July 5, 2008

Remembering Scout

In tribute to Scout, here are some photos from his younger days.We could tell Scout was going to be mischievous even before he came home from the breeder's. (He's the one looking up, with a twinkle in his eye.)Scout with a Favorite ToyJulie and Sweet Puppy Scout (Feb. 2000)He's Getting Bigger! (March 2000)Claudius vs. ScoutReally, They Were Good FriendsRelaxing in the HostasHaving a BallThe Birthday DogMajestic Scout in the Boundary WatersHard-Partying Scout in Grand ForksHappy Dog in ChicagoCamping in Wisconsin Relaxing in the Sun in One of His Favorite SpotsHippie DogSanta ScoutSparkling ScoutHe Always Loved Wearing Clothes!Scout Chasing ChloeSibling RivalryScout and Chloe at the OfficeScout in the SandScout the Lapdog
Firedog Scout